Although celebrities make it look easy, going after an older man for sex and dating is generally not accepted in today’s society. It is usually frowned down upon from your peers, but if you’re an adult and old enough to make your own decisions, then you’re old enough to know who is ultimately right for you in the long run.
So if you need a few pointers on knowing how to seduce an older man, then you have come to the right place!
1. Tell Him He’s Handsome
Just like men your own age, older men especially like having their egos stroked. The best way to get him to notice you is to tell him he’s handsome. Don’t call him ‘cute’ or ‘hot’ because that will remind him of your apparent age difference. Don’t bother telling him how clever or how witty he is. He has heard this time and time again from his employers and fellow colleagues. By telling him he’s handsome, you will not only give him a much needed ego boost, you will also make him very intrigued by your advances.
2. Be a Pop Culture Buff!
You will be amazed by how fast you can turn off an older man by your lack of knowledge of movies and television shows from his era. By showing a blank expression when he shows his admiration for something that was popular for people in his age group, you will not only remind him how young you are but also how much older he is than you. By showing an interest in music, films, books and television shows that are older than you are, you will be opening the doors for great conversation while also gaining knowledge on far better cinema and literature.
3. Make Sure to Meet One on One
Make sure when you’re first trying to seduce your older man to only meet up with no friends in tow. Bringing your friends will only remind him of your age difference and vice versa. You want him to realize why you’re compatible without worrying about what your friends’ opinions.
4. Be Spontaneous!
There’s nothing more sexy than a spontaneous woman for an older man. He’s probably not used to a woman who is up for surprises and is probably open to anything you suggest. Act like teenagers and don’t be afraid of PDA. By being public with your affections towards, you’ll be reassuring him that your age difference doesn’t matter to you.