When you are in an adult dating relationship with a fairly good-looking and charming man, it can be difficult to keep your tabs on him. However, if he does something small to break your trust such as caught texting other girls or being spotted having drinks with his ex, there are certain things a girl must do to keep him in line.
Now, if you can’t forgive him for the indiscretion, then to hell with him. Move on. However, if you want him back and want him behaved, you should follow this 10 day program in order to get the relationship you want.
Before you enter you enter the 10-day Rehabilitation Program, here are some rules to stay calm after catching your man doing no good.
a)Never Panic. Stay Cool. Act like it doesn’t bother you in the slightest and address the issue head on.
b)Never let your girlfriends know the entire situation. They’ll give you bad advice and ruin your confidence and as we know confidence is key.
Day One
Cardinal Rule # 1: DO NOT CALL OR TEXT HIM. Whoever calls first loses ground.
He will call unless he’s an idiot and in that case you don’t want him.
Discuss nothing over the phone. Be quick. Your job is just to listen.
When he wants to meet up, arrive 15 minutes late. Keep him waiting.
Listen to his excuse but don’t get suckered into falling for it. It doesn’t matter what excuse he gives you, he should have known better.
Break up with him before he breaks up with you!
Cardinal Rule # 2: When your man messes up, you have to punish him and punish him hard.
Day 2 and Three
Refrain from picking up your phone. Silence is golden. You can do more with silence than speaking.
Go to a place your man’s friends hang out at. Go over and talk to one of his friends. Don’t do anything slutty. Just be a little too friendly. Hug him too tight and give him kisses on the cheek. This will surely get back to your man and you will break his ego.
Ignore his phone calls.
Day Four
Today will be tricky. At this point, he most likely has gotten advice from his friends. Don’t talk to him. Be prepared for him to come over uninvited.
Day 5 and 6
Most likely, he has come over and transferred his negative emotions on to you. Don’t let him win. Kick him out and spend the next couple of days having friendly conversations with other suitors on Facebook walls. Because while you’re thinking about him, he’s not having a ball not thinking about you.
Day 7
Pay a visit to Victoria’s Secret.
Get your nails and hair done.
Take a long bubble bath.
Pull out the dress that hugs your curves in all the right places.
After you applied your makeup, go over to your man’s house. Your man has a sex cycle and most likely has to have sex at least once every seven days. That means you have to go over there a day before he’s thinking of sleeping with someone else. Your mission is to get into his house. Make up an excuse to bait him.
Before you know, he will be kissing you all over. Get him worked up and then leave him fully aroused.
You have successfully turned the tables.
Day 8
Stock up on groceries. Pick out a bottle of wine, because once you have made up with your man, you will probably be inside making up for the next few days.
If he’s a good man, he will be showing up at your door with his tail in between his legs.
Day 9 & 10
What happens in the bedroom…stays in the bedroom.
Good luck!