Study 'Discovers' Women Like Casual Fucking

Here’s a surprising (not!) adult dating study for you: women love casual fucking just as much as men as long as the experience is safe and pleasing. Basically, the study, which was out of the University of Michigan, was trying to combat the findings of a very dated but oft-cited 1989 study that had random men and women approach aff members of the opposite sex on the street and ask them if they wanted to get their xxx on. While 75 percent of the men said yes, almost none of the women accepted. Everyone since has been saying this means women only want sex when it means babies and love while mean just want to fuck whoever whenever for whatever reason.

Obviously there are an insane number with problems with the 89 study, most predominantly, the fact that those women might have thought the dude asking them to fuck on the street was a rapist.

Anyways, this study put it all straight. Basically this is how Teri Conley, one of the psychologists on the project, sums ups its finding: “When women are presented with proposers who are equivalent in terms of safety and sexual prowess, they will be equally likely as men to engage in casual sex.”

Yes, anyone who has ever been on an sex dating site already realizes this. But thanks for science-ifying it.

Homemade Emergency Contraceptives That Work!

So you’re about to have some remarkable sex and then you discover that you have forgotten your condoms on your nightstand. The pharmacy is closed. The only open convenience store is a 20 minute drive away. What do you do? Most people would avoid having unprotected xxx action and suffer blue ball/clit hell, but there are a couple of safe ways to have sex and the birth control contraceptives can be made out of things you can find in your house!

1. HOME MADE SPERMICIDE

One of the most popular homemade spermicide recipes involves aloe vera gel and lemon juice. To make homemade spermicide, combine 1 tbsp of aloe vera gel with 3 drops of lemon juice. You can keep this mixture refrigerated for up to 72 hours.

2. COCA-COLA DOUCHING

In the sixties, Americans used Coca-Cola as a post-coital sex spermicide many women in third world countries still use Coke as an post-sex douche today. Just remember to not confuse the cups you douche and drink with and you should be fine.

3. VITAMIN C

Vitamin C causes the uterus to become volatile to any fertilized egg and the vitamin reduces the chances of pregancy. Just like the birth control pill, Vitamin C will also cause the womb to shed its’ lining. To use this as a contraceptive, take 1000 mg of Vitamin C, twice daily for 3 days after unprotected sex.

Now, these are not a 100% effective methods of birth control. It is up to you to decide what you are willing to put on the line. If all fails, abstain or pull out. That’s my motto.

How To Give Her Mind Numbing Orgasms

One will never know when I woman is being sincere when she has an orgasm because so many woman are admitting to faking them! So the question in every mans mind is; how can I know for certain that she’s not faking it?

Let’s first start with a few facts about women:

• 70% of women have never had an orgasm with a man.


• 25% of men will get turned down by their own lovers over half the times. These men have women who think sex is a chore.


• Nearly 50% of men have partners that will never ask for sex.


• 92% of women will fake orgasm just to get it over with. Therefore, what most men are doing simply isn’t working.

If you are one of these men who find it difficult to give their dating partner an orgasm, then you need to resort to giving her a clitoral orgasm. This is also known as a G spot orgasm and you’re first off going to have to know where it is in order to simulate it.

It’s crazy how many women have never had an orgasm. Then there are the lucky ones who only enjoy an orgasm once every few years. Just imagine yourself only having an orgasm a few times a year! That would be the end of the world.

If you really want an in depth look at how to give your woman reoccurring orgasms, then you should definitely take a look at a book called the Female Orgasm Black Book. It has everything that you need to know from A to Z when it comes to giving orgasms. For example:

• Why being a great pick up artist doesn’t necessarily mean that you’ll be a stud in bed.


• How to tell if she is faking it and how to tell if it’s real.


• A simple short cut on how to know exactly how she wants to be touched.


• How to create a setting in your home that will make her want to have sex.


• The best positions that will give her an orgasm.


• The most common female orgasm problems and how to fix it.

So, once you get this book and you read it and do everything it tells you too, be prepared to have a lot of sex. You’re partner will not want to go back to having sex once every 3 to 6 months. She is going to want you to work her magic on you every chance you can and carry out her adult fantasy!

The Not So Blatant Signs of A Cheater

I know there are a lot of readers that come on to this site expecting the same adult dating relationship advice that every other female site has about adultery. Now let me tell you something, men are not as dumb as you think they may be. If they are having sex with another woman, they have successfully learned to avoid lipstick on their collars, credit card charges on their online billing accounts and they have learned to hide their saucy text messages from their mistresses.

Like every relationship, it is the little things that count the most. The little details can make and break your relationship and if you pay attention to certain details, you’ll be able to see the red flags that your partner may be cheating on you.

* He comes home smelling like soap and shampoo you don’t own.

*He seems far more spacey than usual. Like he is constantly daydreaming about something else.

* He takes his phone with him everywhere…even the bathroom.

* He has less money, yet is worker longer hours.

* He is a little too concerned with looks and buys new toiletries.

* He seems unfocused.

* He is too tired for sex.

* All of a sudden, he has a new interest in different types of music, movies and television shows.

* He always goes to bed after you go to sleep.

* He buys new socks and underwear.

* Your conversations are never about anything significant.

If you have checked off a good number of things on this list and suspect your significant other is cheating on you, then you have to go with your gut instinct. You can either bottle up your feelings or take the direct approach and ask him point blank. Sure, he could lie straight to face, however you will know if he is lying or not right away. It’s your decision whether you want to live with the lies or move on. It’s really your call.

Beware of the "One of the Guys" Girls

Every guy will find themselves attracted to a girl who claims to be “one of the guys” at one point in their adult dating lives. She’s the kind of girl that plays sports, drinks beer, listens to The Smiths and knows where the origin of the word ‘frack’ came from. She seems low maintenance and easy going and has no qualms about the use of profanity. She seems like the perfect woman–but beware. It is easy to fall for these types of girls but it is difficult to maintain a long-term connection with them as well.

Despite the fact that it is perfectly normal these days for women to have guy friends, it is not normal for a girl to go out of her way to claim only men in her life as “platonic” friends.

Once you date these women, you will soon realize her immaturity and her need for constant attention from the aff members of the opposite sex. You will also realize that these type of women who claim to be “one of the guys” also are far more envious and insecure than women who embrace the estrogen flowing in their veins. They tend to think they are also better than other women because they have a gaggle of guy friends who admire them. Trust me, these women seeking male friends know these men all have secret crushes on them and it’s usually a premeditated move to pursue friendships with them.

You will soon learn that women with only guy friends are not more fun to be around–despite how often they exclaim the opposite. You also begin to notice the subtle and snide grins of satisfaction when they’re able to get an overly-excited reaction from a man who shares the same passion for Danny McBride.

You will learn the hard way that women with only male friends are actually not low maintenance at all. They are so high maintenance that they need five or more loser guys around them to keep their egos properly stroked. Does that sound like the fun and laid back type of woman you are seeking? I didn’t think so.

Do you really want to be the guy who has a girlfriend who has 5 to 8 male shoulders to cry on just in case your relationship doesn’t work out? Again, I didn’t think so.

Although these women are appealing at first, it’s always best to avoid pursuing deep connections with them. Stick with women who are not afraid of being open about their own interests and who don’t pretend to like things just because other women don’t. Mature women don’t need to be “one of the guys” to be “one of a kind.”

New Dating Web Site, Matches Users by Music Preference

Looking for that special someone can be a chore. Picking up a random mate at a bar can be frightening, being set up by friends can get tired, and let's face it, we're not all cut out to fight for the love of Bret Michaels or Tila Tequila on some dating reality show.

And now there are so many dating Web sites that filling out the same standardized questionnaire for each one can get tedious and boring - and even then it doesn't guarantee you'll find your soul mate.

A new Los Angeles-based dating site, Rocknrolldating.com, offers an edgier experience, a rock 'n' roll lifestyle-focused questionnaire and a database that allows users to browse profiles by music artist. From AC/DC to ZZ Top, site users have entered thousands of rock artists. There's a variety of categories to file your profile under, whether you're a rockabilly or a metalhead, or even an emo-punker who's into Fall Out Boy.


Building a online dating rockin' community

As a longtime musician who also owned a record label, Daniel House wanted to create a dating site that was different and that fit his lifestyle and that of his friends.

The 40-something Los Angeles resident has been involved in the music world for more than 20 years. Before moving to L.A. five years ago, House lived in Seattle and was in a grunge-rock band called Skin Yard that toured with the likes of Faith No More, the Meat Puppets, Nirvana and Soundgarden in the early '90 s. House also ran a record label, C/Z Records, which released singles of many of these bands as well as music from the Melvins and Seven Year Itch.

"Music has always been such a critical part of my lifestyle and it's an important part of who you are," House said. "I can't tell you how many times I've had a friend say 'He's a cool guy, but his taste in music sucked so I knew it wouldn't last.'

"I realized that there was nothing like this out there and that there's a lot of community that revolves around broader styles of music, like punk rock or goth, and specific bands like Radiohead or Queens of the Stone Age, even Hall and Oates - you'd be surprised how many fans there are out there that meet at shows and then start dating."

House spent a year working on the layout, design and overall feel of the Web site. He admitted that he hadn't really given the world of online dating a try, but his years of thumbing through weekly personal ads gave him a good idea of what he wanted for his site.

His online dating site does allow users to list their favorite artists, all-time favorite concerts and favorite movies, and create a personal concert calendar where users can flag the shows they plan to attend.

Looking for love

Rocknrolldating user Lejoiedevivre, 29, of Long Beach, joined the site after hearing about it on KROQ.

In an e-mail interview, she explained that she's been on the site since March and exchanged e-mails with a handful of single men. She met up with one, hung out a handful of times, but no love match.

"I loved the concept, since I thought other sites came off as too serious (eHarmony) or meat-markety Match.com), and I'm a big music lover," she wrote. "I've found that I don't really meet people into the same kind of stuff/music as I am at the places (we) go. Seemed to me, much easier, to go through a person's profile and see what interests you share rather than try to read a complete stranger ( ... such a waste of time)."

The future of dating rock-style

Following an aggressive marketing campaign this summer, House hopes to increase the number of users to 10,000 by September.

After four months of activity, he has taken users' site-improvement suggestions to heart and will soon be incorporating a few new features. Other upcoming features include adding a "tattoo" category and a band keyword search, as well as a keyword search by various interests. There is currently a clickable but limited "browse by artist" and "browse by interest" area on the home page.

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