Showing posts with label online dating sites. Show all posts
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Sunday, 29 April 2012

How To Enjoy Sex With OCD

Recently, the TV show Glee has been poking fun at the Emma, the wide-eyed guidance counsellor on the show who has severe OCD. Although many viewers cannot understand how she could avoid having sex with John Stamos, there are in fact a number of people in this world who are too afraid to have xxx action with their partners because of their obsessive -compulsive disorders and nature. Having a healthy adult dating love and sex life may seem like a hopeless dream to achieve for individuals that have trouble becoming sexually aroused and are disgusted by even the thought of bodily secretions and fluids and it’s affecting many people’s sex lives every day.

However, there are solutions to beating this disorder and to enjoy sex the way you should. By following these tips and helpful guidelines, you will see OCD doesn’t have to be eternal cockblock to your sex life anymore.

Medicate Your Symptoms: If you have spent your whole life sabotaging your sex life, it is time to admit you need help. In order to resurrect your dormant sex life, individuals suffering from OCD must seek the right treatment for them to lead healthy lives. There are many medications and sex therapy options that will help your symptoms in great and useful ways.

Tell Your Family Doctor or Therapist: Don’t let your pride get the best of you when you are experiencing sex-related difficulties complicated by your obsessive-compulsion disorder. Tell your family doctor and therapist before seeking out OCD treatments. Your problems may be a lot easier to treat than you may think they are.

Tell Your Partner: Like having any other disease, it’s always good to inform your partner about your disorder and to be honest. If you are a 30 year old virgin because you have been suffering from your disorder, then you need to tell them that. Don’t lead them on if this is going to be a strenuous process for you. Being vocal and honest prevents misunderstandings, low self-esteem issues and you will always see the person’s true colors. The basis for any healthy relationship is good communication and by doing so, you be that much closer to having the courage to pursue a great sexual connection with your partner.

Wednesday, 18 April 2012

What Ladies Should Never Do In a New Relationship

In your adult dating lives, it’s imperative to know the rules and boundaries in new relationships. Despite the fact that most people say that you should be yourself when you’re dating someone new, it’s perfectly acceptable to hide certain aspects of your personality…especially if you want to be involved with this person for a long time.

It’s sad to say, but women can do certain things early on that will have him running away in seconds. Do you want to keep your man? Then follow our guideline for what NOT to do in a new relationship.

Fart-When you are in a comfortable relationship, you will eventually having farting contests, but until that times comes, don’t pass gas in front of your new man. You want to keep some kind of mystery of about yourself, right?

Leave Your Tampons Out- See above answer.

Call His Mother- Unless you are okay with being compared to Glenn Close from Fatal Attraction, it’s best to not call his mother early on. Wait until he introduces you first.

Talk About Your Ex- When you are dating a new guy, it’s best not to talk about how your ex was like Mr. Big in Sex And The City and comparing him to Aidan Shaw. No matter what he says, no guys likes hearing about a girl’s romantic past.

Burp-Wait until you have reached the 6 month mark before having belching contests.

Flirt With His Friends- This is a huge no-no. Also, he will dump you and tell everybody on his Facebook list that you are a raging skank bitch.

Try To Change Him- Hasn’t Colin Farrell’s love life taught you anything, ladies? You can’t change a man to suit you better. You take him or leave him. It’s as simple as that.

Talk About Marriage And Kids-If you really want to scare a guy off, mention how you want to be married and be a mother within two years from now. Unless he has expressed interest in parenthood, keep it to yourself.

Tuesday, 20 March 2012

Is This a Date?

I’ve had plenty of women tell me that one of the trickiest things about meeting men in places other than on

One such annoying scenario, a close female friend recently informed me, is when you meet a man through work or play or whatever and he asks you out for drinks or to a show, but in such a casual way that you aren’t sure if this is an xxx date or a friends date or a let’s-just-see-what-happens date.

Now, I don’t want to overgeneralive, but most of the time I’d say that if I guy has asked you out to a 1-on-1 scenario, he’s probably hoping to get some adult play time in afterwards. Here’s a few ways you can be sure it’s a date:

1. He pays.

For anything. A drink. A plate of nachos. A ticket. Whatever it may be, if he’s buying then this is a date.

2. He tries to make eye contact.

Date!

3. He touches you.

Brushes your arm, grabs your hand, whatever – date.

Pretty simple, isn’t it? If he treats you like you’re special, it’s a date.

Saturday, 3 March 2012

How To Properly Call Dibs On A Guy

In your adult dating life, there are times when you see an incredibly hot guy with all your girlfriends. As immature as it may be, sometimes calling “dibs” is crucial to your own happiness in regards to your love and sex life.

So why do we call dibs on a potential love interest like we would a front seat of a car? It’s because we know who are we attracted to right away and we especially know when our girlfriends are equally as attracted to the same person to. By staking our claim into a new fella before your friends can, you are doing the best to deflect drama. However, there are some rules you need to learn about calling dibs, because in order for the act to be accepted, there is a certain etiquette you must follow to get what and who you want.

Don’t Call Dibs On Looks Alone

If you see a hot guy across the bar, the best thing to do is to haul ass and approach him before you call dibs on him. You shouldn’t base your attraction on looks alone. You might find out he’s dumber than a doornail. Get to know your crush before staking your claim in him.

Don’t Be A “Dibs” Whore

It’s okay to call dibs from time to time, but don’t overdo it or you run the risk of losing friends and starting fights. Be selective with your choices and only call dibs on someone you truly believe you share a magnetic connection with.

Avoid A Dibs World War

If both of you and friend call dibs on the same guy at the same time, just bow down and let her have this one. No stranger is worth breaking up your friendship over.

Don’t Get Jaded If He Likes Your Friend More

So you called dibs and approached the guy, but he’s more interested in your friend. Be a good sport and don’t stand in the way of your friend’s happiness. Who knows? It might make for a terrific opening for your speech if they get married.

Sunday, 26 February 2012

2 Girls

In a true case of double what they want and none of what they don?t, hetero men just love watching two girls having sex. No matter if the girls are gay, bi or straight; regardless of what exactly they are doing with their mouths; no matter where they are getting together or what they are or are not wearing, the simple act of two women being physically close excites most hetero men simply because they are getting to see two of what they like and no man in the mix to deter the attention. Either imagining themselves with the girls or simply enjoy two women locked so closely together, this hetero man?s most common

It might simple be that in the hetero world, two women showing affection is a normal sight. It?s accepted in almost all civilizations for women to hug, snuggle close, kiss. It isn?t such a big step from this normally accepted behavior to girls snuggle all that much closer, then maybe kissing, then maybe rubbing clits. How many women have had close roommate rendezvous during their college years? How many wives make-out at a bar for their husband?s delight and how many girls can admit to more than just a few slumber party frolics in junior high even before they had ever touched their pussies?

Most hetero men either suspect a date?’s history or fantasize about one and formulate either a plan to maybe get their woman in bed with another woman or masturbate incessantly to the thought of their woman in bed, over a kitchen counter, even in the front seat of a car or on the front lawn, with another woman.

Monday, 16 November 2009

Women Don’t Make Sense

I’m going to start off this whole shebang by giving you my take on women in general.



I know, I know. Every woman is a unique creature. But women have more commonalties than they have differences. So let’s start with what I think they have in



common and then we’ll move on to how they differ. (The ideas that I’m about to share with you here are from my own research, testing in the real world, and personal analysis).



For most men, a woman is like a Chinese puzzle inside of a brain twister.

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Much of their behaviour makes no sense at all (to men).



If there’s one thing that I’m clear about, it’s that most women THINK differently than most men, and most women want different things than most men.



This is hard for many men to grasp or understand, but it’s true. And the sooner you get a handle on what’s going on here, the sooner you’ll become more successful with women.



Let’s start by comparing what men and women are interested in. Have you ever stopped to think about what entertains women as a group compared to what entertains men as a group? Women buy Cosmopolitan magazines, watch soap operas, and read romance novels. Men buy Playboy, watch sports, and read the paper.



Hey, wait a minute here! What’s in those Cosmos, soaps, and romance novels? And why are women so attracted to them? And why is it that when men try to watch a soap



opera or read a romance novel all they can say is, “I don’t get it...”?



I’ll tell you why. It’s because women’s brains are wired differently from men’s brains. That’s why. And by telling you about what attracts women’s attention, I’ve also given you a clue about how to attract them to YOU.