Study 'Discovers' Women Like Casual Fucking

Here’s a surprising (not!) adult dating study for you: women love casual fucking just as much as men as long as the experience is safe and pleasing. Basically, the study, which was out of the University of Michigan, was trying to combat the findings of a very dated but oft-cited 1989 study that had random men and women approach aff members of the opposite sex on the street and ask them if they wanted to get their xxx on. While 75 percent of the men said yes, almost none of the women accepted. Everyone since has been saying this means women only want sex when it means babies and love while mean just want to fuck whoever whenever for whatever reason.

Obviously there are an insane number with problems with the 89 study, most predominantly, the fact that those women might have thought the dude asking them to fuck on the street was a rapist.

Anyways, this study put it all straight. Basically this is how Teri Conley, one of the psychologists on the project, sums ups its finding: “When women are presented with proposers who are equivalent in terms of safety and sexual prowess, they will be equally likely as men to engage in casual sex.”

Yes, anyone who has ever been on an sex dating site already realizes this. But thanks for science-ifying it.

Condom Use Influences How Others Perceive You

When it comes to wearing a condom, it essentially doesn’t matter if it’s the chick or the guy who is the one to suggest it. However, for women, how she suggests it makes all the difference.

Apparently, if the woman highlights her sexuality in every man’s dating fantasy and incorporates the condom into the scenario as an erotic and fun activity, other women will judge her more harshly then if she comply refuses to have sex without a condom or shares her concerns with the guy about transmitting STDS.

Dr. Michael Broaddus examines the effects of the proposer’s gender and their condom negotiation strategy and how they are perceived by others.

Using different theories regarding sexuality and socialization, the researchers carried out two studies looking at how women who suggest condoms are perceived by men and how specific condom negotiation strategies affect perceptions of a woman.

During the study, students were shown one of three videos of sexual encounters where either a man or a woman suggested using the condom or not using it. They were then asked to imagine how the proposer was viewed by the dating partner. They were also asked if they thought they would end up having sex and if they think they used a condom or not.

Female students rated the female proposer as less nice, more promiscuous and less like the house wife type when she used the erotic strategy. On the other hand, they said the couples were more than likely to have sex when she used this method.

The researchers have concluded, “this line of research has implications for both basic research on gender roles…as well as applied research into the development of sexual risk reduction intervention content for men and women on how to more effectively communi

How To Compete With Her Vibrator

There comes a time in every couple’s relationship when their sex lives are tested to the max. There is something worse than worrying about your significant other’s ex connecting with them on Facebook. It’s big, pink and most likely battery-operated. If you guessed a woman’s vibrator then you are right!

When your girlfriend uses the Ferrari of all vibrators, it’s hard to compete with it. She orgasms in literally 30 seconds and discovers that what she thought was an orgasm for her entire adult dating life really wasn’t–making you feel insignificant in bed.

Seriously, how can you compete? Now most vibrators are heat-sensored and most can plug into the wall–meaning it will NEVER tire out. NEVER.

Don’t be discouraged that the only way you can compete with the dreaded vibrator’s speed is by having a seizure or being electrocuted. There are ways around it. If you’re tired of being the fluffer for your girlfriend, here are some helpful tips to help guide to pleasuring your girlfriend like her vibrator.

Study Your “Enemy”

When she’s fast asleep after her multiple orgasms with her electronic buddy, turn it on and study it. You will realize that the dildo has nothing to do with orgasmic bliss. It’s all about the clitoral stimulator attached to it. It’s most likely shaped like some kind of zoo animal or sea mammal. You should always know your enemy before trying to defeat them.

Practice Your “Exercises”

In most cases, women tend to take a long time to orgasm through intercourse. That is why you need to perfect your speed and your technique before going “in.” Practice the “come hither” finger gesture when you’re by yourself. To practice your oral technique, eat a lot of ice cream cones. Fight off the numbing feeling in your tongue by continuing your “technique.” You have to build up the stamina to compete with IT.

“Rabbit” Speed

During the final stage of intercourse, the only way you’re going to stimulate her like her “little friend” does is to perfect your thrusting skills. To keep up, you must be able to thrust 2.5 times per second. This takes a lot of practice but if you have been studying your enemy and perfecting your techniques, you should be just fine.

Break It

When she’s at work, twist her vibrator until you hear a clicking noise. Scratch where the batteries should go to. You want her to think she tired the vibrator out so she doesn’t blame you. Considering how expensive they are, she probably won’t be getting a replacement anytime soon. Sometimes you have to play dirty to get what you want.

The Top Sex Bummers

Every couple, whether it be a casual sex partner or a in serious dating relationship, has suffered the ultimate not so sexy adult fantasy which end up turning off the perspective partner in bed. So, the next time you find yourself in an embarrassing situation, take a count of the following points:

Sex with my ex: Imagine screaming someone else’s name when you’re about to orgasm. If this happens, it is likely going to make your partner feel estranged. Though fantasies are an essential part of gratifying sex, expressing fantasies in such an unexpected way can often put an end to your relationship.

Nature’s call: Often confused with a squirting orgasm, it is related to the pressure applied on the bladder due to sexual stimulation. So, never force yourself to climax, if you’re feeling like relieving yourself. Make sure you have attended nature’s call before you gear up for sex.

Oops, I farted: Make sure your digestive system is in the right place before you indulge in a make out session. It is also recommended to consume a digestive pill or opt for a brisk walk after the meal to make the food settle down.

Nailed: Many couples end up scratching each other’s bodies with their sharp nails. It may be an act of pleasure for you, but your partner might not be enjoying the pain as much. Cut and file your nails so that they do not lead to painful scratches on your partner.

Self stimulation: Avoid touching your spots repeatedly, let your partner have the privilege to arouse you but touching your erotic zones.

The silent quotient: How would you feel if your partner remianed silent throughout the whole act of sex? Not a great feeling of course! Your partner loves hearing your moan and scream to know that you’re having a good time.

Napping tapping: It’s often a common occurrence to see your partner falling asleep time and time again while you’re in the mood to fuck. It’s always a good idea to grab a sound sleep after sex and not let it come in the way of seeking pleasure.

Prince Harry & Dirty Chelsy At the Royal Wedding

Awesome! I just heard that Prince Harry is taking Chelsea Davy to the wedding? Wha am I celebrating, you ask? Because Chelsy fucking Davy is xxx-rated all the way. She’s a notorious party girl who loves slamming back the tequila shots till dawn, giving you an adult dance in the back of the bar and finding another princess-wannabe to join you in the bedrrom just before you kick her out coldly in the morning.

She is the anti-thesis of Kate Middleton, and my god, I hate Kate Middleton. And I hate the Royal Wedding. I am hoping that Chelsea gets smashed out of her mind on the ridiculously expensive wine and champage and ends up flashing her pussy at some creepy uncle, giving an adult-only speech or dancing a little too sex groovily with Harry on the dance floor.

I would so rather see the wedding of those two – it would be full of debauchery and inappropriateness. It would have sex and excitement. Kate&William are just two hours of white dresses and straight backs and boring things said by boring people. Ugh. Not watching.

Here We Go Again: Top 20 Deal Breakers

In your adult dating life, you will encounter many times in your relationships where you reach a breaking point with your partner. If you’re a single adult woman wanting to get married and start a family, the average time from being single to being a motherhood is approximately five to seven years. Men however, are likely not to be in such a rush to get married. Many opt to put their friends and work ahead of the women in their lives to fight off the dreaded “co-dependence syndrome.”

When you have been involved with a man for a long time, it’s important to realize that most likely it will be the little things that will break you up. Sometimes however, these little things aren’t so little and should be considered to be honest to god relationship deal breakers. Deal breakers vary for every woman, although there are always certain qualities, bad habits and personality attributes that every gal knows she can’t live with for the rest of her life.

Here are some common reasons why women decide to end the relationship:

1. He is always busy on weekend nights doing God knows what with his friends.

2. You are total opposites. Opposite may attract, but they get bored of each other pretty quickly.

3. Family is always getting in the way of your relationship. If your partner has constant family drama, it will not get easier if you marry into it.

4. Religious differences are putting a strain on your relationship. If you can’t even fathom the thought of converting to be with your partner, how can you expect to ever get married?

5. If you have different political views, this could be fairly detrimental to your relationship. Watch The Way We Were for example.

6. He works all the time and you never get to see him. Everybody in a healthy relationship should be able to balance work and their love lives equally.

7. He is a slave to his bad habits. If he smokes, drinks and smoke pot regularly in front of you, that will definitely put a strain on your relationship.

8. If he has a history of abusing hardcore drugs and is in recovery, it could make you constantly worried that he will relapse after a bad fight.

9. If he is a hardcore loner and ditches his friends and family to constantly hang out with his woman, it could definitely make his girlfriend feel trapped.

10. Jealousy and insecurity is definitely a red flag. If he doesn’t trust you around other men and you’re constantly explaining to him where you are, get out now!

11. If none of your friends, family and co-worker like him because he is rude, this will be something you will resent him for later in your relationship.

12. A biggest turn off to a woman in a relationship is if her partner has horrible hygiene. A woman can only take bad breath, body odor and stinky feet for so long.

13. If he never dresses up and never wants to take care of himself for you, then that will eliminate the spark that once brought you two together.

14. Despite the fact that women may deny the following fact until they are blue in the face, no woman wants to support her man financially. If he doesn’t have a job and is not rushing to a get a new one, this is grounds for terminating the relationship.

15. If a woman’s man has money and is too cheap to spend any of it, that also is an unattractive personality trait.

16. Differing morals and values are the catalysts to many break ups. If you don’t share the same views on abortion, women’s rights and even homosexuality, do you really want your children adopting your partner’s similar views?

17. We all get lost in life, but if your partner constantly feels like he has no purpose and has no direction in life, then he will bring you down with him.

18. Does he bore you? Do you find your mind wandering when he speaks? Do you really want to spend the rest of your life with someone who entertains you as much as your grandmother does?

19. Do you find him physically unattractive? Are you always excusing his appearance to your friends? If the very thought of him being on top of you makes you want to puke, then it’s time to cut the cord on the relationship.

20. If he is a major hothead and you can’t have a conversation without him getting angry about something, then again, cut the cord.

Remember, some women can tolerate the things on this list and others can’t. It’s good to know what your deal breakers are and if your gut tells you that you are dating the wrong guy, then get out now! No matter how trapped you feel, there is always an EXIT door…always. It is never too early to break up with Mr. Wrong.

The Beginning of the End, Or the End of the Beginning

Once you’ve figured out how to attract women, you’re bound to find one who’s particularly interesting to you.

One that you might actually, um, love.

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One that you might want to keep around for a bit. Hey, you might even meet someone that you want to spend the rest of your life with.

Even though I’ve made most of this book about meeting women, I don’t feel that it would be complete without at least a few ideas on how to keep a woman attracted to you for the long haul.

But first of all, here’s my take on why relationships fail:

When you first start dating someone you really like, the body releases a combination of chemicals that are quite literally intoxicating. These chemicals cause you to want to be with that person all the time, stay up all night talking to them, and have sex with them three times a day.

But twelve to eighteen months later, the chemicals change. The intoxicating chemicals are replaced by ‘stability’ chemicals. The ‘stay-up-all-night-can’t-be-away-from-her-have-sex-three-times-a-day’ feeling goes away and the ‘let’s-settle-down-and-have-two-kids-and-buy-a-minivan’ chemicals take over. Deal with it. (If you want to understand this process better, read “The Alchemy of Love and Lust” by Theresa Crenshaw.)

So now that you know this, how do you keep this whole thing from turning into an episode of “All in the Family”?

Well, the short answer is, keep up the fun, interesting, unpredictable behaviour. Notice the details. Do thoughtful things.

Here’s something that I’ve learned in life: If you want to get back more than you give, then play the stock market. It’s not gonna happen in relationships. In fact, if you want to get a lot back, you’re probably going to have to give even more.

Most people are selfish and say, “I’m not going to give more than I get.” But instead of getting a lot, all they get is old and unhappy. I’ve found that it’s much better to give a ton and get back a lot in return, not caring about the fact that I didn’t get as much as I gave than to give little or none and get back little or none.

Relationships aren’t like investing. If you want a lot, get used to giving more. But it’s worth it in the end, because love, attention, humour, and fun aren’t like money. If you give them out, you don’t have less. You have MORE. Get it?

Now that you’ve read this book, you probably have that same feeling that I had when I first learned all of this amazing material. You’re probably excited.

Well, there’s more.

If you are ready to take your education to the next level and advance at a faster pace, then you need to listen to, read, and watch my other programs. They take this foundation and expand the concepts both wide and deep... and show you tricks and shortcuts for everything from approaching women to taking things to a physical level.

On Looks and Body Language

Most of the men I talk to who want to learn how to be successful with women ask me things like, “What’s a good line?” or “What do you say when they say this?”

For some reason, most people forget that language is a SECONDARY way of communicating. It’s to be used when there’s no faster way.

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When two people are communicating face-to-face, most of the communication is happening through body language and voice tone, while very little through the

actual words.

I’ve seen studies that show that as little as 7% of what you communicate is done verbally, while your body language and voice tone make up the other 93%.

So which do you think is more powerful when dealing with women?

Right, right... your body language and voice tone.

On Testing

The way I see it, women are constantly testing men. They do it by acting bratty, making demands, complaining, commanding, being emotional, etc.

Know what I’m talking about?

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Here’s what I do:

When a woman tries to test me – for instance, if she says, “I don’t like that heavy metal that you were listening to” – I turn it up a notch and send it back to her – I might also say, “Well, then you might want to not get in my car anymore, because it’s all I’m going to play now that you’re whining about it.” (Said in a half serious tone so she can’t tell if I’m kidding)

This sends the message that if she tries to act controlling, I’m just going to turn whatever she’s being a pain about up one notch and give it to her again. Women

get the message loud and clear when you act this way.

It may be hard to believe, but I’ve heard MANY women say things like, “I HATE IT when a man does what I tell him to do”, or “I just walk all over him, and it’s so annoying to me.”

Some women actually have standard tests that they give to new guys to see if the guy will do what they tell him to do. I’ve now learned NEVER to accept demanding or controlling behaviour. I usually just laugh and say, “Cute.” By laughing and saying, “Cute”, I short-circuit their testing mechanism and let them know that I’m going to be more of a challenge than they thought.

Snappy Responses To Common Situations

Ever been sitting with a group of attractive women and your buddies when out of nowhere one of the women says, “You guys are lucky to be at the same table with

us.”

Well I have. So I came up with a few zingers to throw out should this happen again:

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Also, quit EXPECTING to “pick up girls” and instead go make friends and give the women the opportunity to get to know you. A couple more ideas for different situations:

(The napkin almost always comes back, and the game is on... It’s fun, mysterious, and the girl always wants to know who’s playing with her. I’ve used this before, and it’s great fun. At some point, depending on whether you’re winning or losing, you can come over to her table and say something like, “Well, I had to meet my worthy opponent” or “I hope you talk better than you play”, etc.)

One of the most amazing things you can do when a woman brings up sex is to tease her about it, ask her why she’s bringing it up, and accuse her of having a dirty mind, etc. It’s great! You must realize that this is one of the very best ways to tease an attractive woman. They usually love it.  Attractive women often bring up the topic to see if you’re comfortable... or to test you to find out if you’ll get nervous or insecure.

The best thing to do in these situations is to accuse her of trying to get sexual too fast, tell her you’re not interested, and bust on her. It’s all kinds of good fun. And the added benefit is that it makes her more and more curious about you and why you don’t seem like all the other losers who roll over and act stupid.

Where And How To Meet Women

I intuitively determined that there are certain major steps to ‘meeting women’, if you will. This is how my mind naturally thinks.

I’ve now broken these down in my mind to chunks like ‘Approaching Women’, ‘Getting Phone Numbers’, etc. which I’ll explain here and in future chapters.

I’d like to add here that different people have different personal views regarding meeting women, ‘getting laid’, relationships, etc.

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I’m not going to try to convince you that my way is the best, but I’ll share some of my personal values with you. When I’m in a ‘relationship’ with a woman and we’ve agreed to be ‘exclusive’, then I’m faithful to that woman.

If I’m single, then I date whoever I want, whenever I want, and have no problems or hang ups with sex, seeing more than one woman at a time, etc. Some people see things differently, which is fine, but I wanted you to know where I was coming from on this issue.

By the way, the things that I’m sharing with you work whether you’re just meeting a woman or if you’ve known her for years... or even if you’ve been married forever.

And contrary to what many men think, women usually love it that you’ve taken the time to learn things like what I’m teaching you. It makes things more fun and interesting for them.

Learn A Few Cold Reading Methods

Women love things like Astrology, Tarot Cards, Palmistry, Handwriting Analysis, Psychics, and anything else you can think of that most men aren’t interested in.

Here’s what to do:

Go get the books “Handwriting Analysis” by Karen Amend, “Palm Reading: A Little Guide To Life’s Secrets” by Dennis Fairchild. and “An Introduction to Hand Reflexology” by Denise Brown. You can order all of them at Amazon.com.

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Then sit down for an evening and read them. Learn some basics about how to tell people what they’re like from studying handwriting samples, looking at their palms, feeling tension in their bodies, etc.

This stuff is ABSOLUTELY FASCINATING to women.

All you have to do is take a woman’s hand, look at it, and say, “Well, you’re a very interesting person.”

That’s it... it’s almost like magic.

After revealing to her all of her secret desires, you can move directly into your hand massage and Reflexology methods. I’m hoping that the benefits of these techniques speak for themselves.

By the way, it doesn’t hurt to know a few advanced or unusual massage moves either. So you might want to check out a couple of books on massage while you’re at it.

Getting Phone Numbers And E-mail Addresses

I’ve personally stopped focusing on just getting phone numbers. I’ve found that e-mail addresses are far better.

Let me explain.

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I perfected the art of getting phone numbers a couple of years ago. If a woman is single, I can walk up to her and get her number in about a minute. I found out later,

after working like a mad scientist on this skill, that numbers don’t equal success.

You see, women have many different reasons for giving out their phone numbers. Some love the attention of having a lot of men call them. Some like to turn guys down. Some are actually interested. But based on the universal feedback that I get from men and my personal experience, women act differently on the phone than they do in person.

When you call a woman for the first time, she’ll often start acting stand offish or even worse, just plain rude.

I’ve found that getting an e-mail address is not only easier, but it gets more positive responses later on.

It’s almost like women appreciate it that you’ve taken the time to think about what you’re going to say when you write an e-mail to them.

The other benefit of e-mail is that it can be written and answered anytime.

If you call, you have to actually reach them.

But an e-mail can be answered anytime.

And I’ve found that e-mails are answered far more often than voicemail messages.

Here’s the how-to:

After I’ve talked to a woman for about 3 or 4 minutes, I’ll often say something like, “Well, it was nice meeting you. I’m going to get back to my friends.” They usually don’t know what to do, as they’re used to guys clinging. Then, just as I’m turning to walk away… and we kind of disconnect… I turn back and say, “Hey, do you have e-

mail?”

If they say ‘yes’, I take out a pen and paper and have them write it down. (This is great, as I just treat the ‘yes’ that they give me as a ‘yes’ to get it from them as well.

And they’ve ALL gone along with it so far.) Then I say, “Write your number down there too.” I won’t go into all of it, but this move is a powerhouse. When you ask for e-mail, it’s very low risk for them… so they think, “Fine, I’ll do that”… and then when they’re already writing, I get the phone number too… which is more natural.

If they say no, then I bust on them and say, “Well, do you have electricity?” Then I say, “Well, OK then… I like e-mail better, but I’ll take your regular phone number… it’s so damn hard to reach people on the phone these days.”

I hope you get what just happened… OK, then, as they’re writing I say, “Is this a number that you actually answer?” If not, then I say, “Look, write your real number down… it’s going to be OK… I’ll only call you nine times a day.” They laugh and give me their real number.

Just realize that all you have to do is ask.

Like I said, I’ve tried all kinds of things. Many guys say, “But what do I tell her as a reason why I want her number or e-mail?” I’ve never had a woman ask me. If you ask and they give it, then she knows why you asked. If she doesn’t give it to you, then she also knew why you asked. Just assume that this is the case.

If you ask every time, and you do it in a smooth, assuming, calm way, you’ll get a lot of e-mails and phone numbers.

Note: Carry a pen with you at all times.

Signs That A Woman Is Interested

I’ve read all the books that say, “If a woman tilts her head to the side, licks her lips, fondles her hair, and looks over her shoulder at you, there’s a 67% chance that she’s interested in you.”

Here’s what I’ve found:

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The main sign signal that I look for now is, ‘Is she acting friendly to me?’

That’s it. Now, of course some women are more forward than others; but overall, if a woman is acting friendly and keeping up an interesting conversation, you’re usually doing pretty well.

The key is to KEEP GOING AND CONTINUE TO THE NEXT STEP ALWAYS.

I have to stop and explain this point.

Most men don’t realize that THEY NEED TO KEEP ADVANCING.

If your conversation is going well, ask for a phone number.

If you’re out for a walk and the conversation seems to be going well, reach over and kiss her.

If you’re at your house watching a movie and start kissing, take her hand and lead her to your bedroom... get the idea?

Keep advancing.

Women like this and expect it. If they’re not comfortable, they’ll let you know. But don’t worry. Just keep going and advance again at the next opportunity.

Don’t push – advance.

More on this stuff:

Read Chapter 7 of “Body Language” by Julius Fast … about Mike. I’ve read that chapter about 50 times. You may not get it at first, but keep reading it until you do. The more you learn, the more you’ll get it.

Also, read “The Rules” by Ellen Fein and Sherrie Schneider… yea, the one for women. Do that stuff… it works… end all conversations first, etc.

And read “How to Make Love to a Woman” by Michael Morganstern. Good stuff in there too. And learn how to be funny… do whatever you have to do. It’s the magic ingredient to add to your cockiness that sets the mixture ablaze.

Get A Few Good Props

Props are things that give a woman something to talk about.

A big stuffed animal in your house might be a prop.

Your dog might be a prop.

A picture of you and your mom might be a prop.

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Colouring books and crayons are a great prop that a friend of mine has used for years.

The idea here is to have things in your house that are unusual, interesting, and fascinating to play with, talk about, watch, whatever.

Books and magazines about interesting topics make great props. I have a big book called Sexual Secrets by Nik Douglas and Penny Slinger on my bookshelf. I didn’t realize that it was such an attention magnet, but whenever anyone male or female sees my bookshelf, they instantly go for that book. It’s big, bold, and provocative. Keep a few good books like this one around for discussion. The book that I mentioned earlier about Palmistry is a GREAT prop. It’s a tiny book about three. Just leave it on your coffee table so that a inches square woman can find it on her own, which leads to the discussion, the palmistry, the touching, etc.

Magic is another great prop. You can learn a few easy coin magic tricks in an afternoon. These work great as conversation starters, for fun with waitresses, etc. Magic is just an all around winner in the props department.

If you play a musical instrument, make sure it’s out and about and ready for playing. Unless, of course, you play the accordion or tuba.

Take a minute and think about what kinds of things the women you are interested in would find fascinating, interesting, and irresistible. Then scatter them around your house.

Chivalry

My experience is that women love chivalry.

I personally like to open doors for women, etc.

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Here are a few things that you can do that women will find irresistible:

Open doors for them. I open all doors. Car doors, house doors, restaurant doors... any door that shows up. If you step just a little ahead and open each door, this will create an impression.

Pull out their chairs. Only do this if it makes sense and it’s reasonable. But if you can, do it. Women love to feel like a man is watching over them and making sure they are taken care of. This is another little way to show it.

Walk on the outside of the sidewalk. Most men, and even many women, don’t know that men are ‘supposed’ to walk on the outside of the sidewalk (closest to the traffic) just in case a car jumps the curb, so she’ll be safe and he’ll instead be hit. Do this, and if they don’t know why you’re doing it, explain the reason. Nice touch.

On Cuddling

I personally love to cuddle. I discovered something almost entirely by accident one time when I was talking to a girl on the phone one night. We were having a discussion about the differences between men and women and I said something to this effect:

“Do you like to cuddle? I really like to cuddle… as a matter of fact, if I had to choose between cuddling and sex, I’d choose cuddling. Now don’t get me wrong, I love sex… but cuddling is the best… can you cuddle all night?”

Then I said, “I really like to kiss, and I can just kiss and cuddle... and touch someone all night... and feel wonderful...”

By the time I was finished, she started saying, “I’m really getting turned on right now”... she actually asked me to have phone sex with her!

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I’ve had this happen on the phone several times since, and it’s not a coincidence.

When you’re talking to a woman, if you start talking about kissing, cuddling, touching... and you are very specific about it... “I like to run the tips of my fingers over the part of your shoulder where it touches your neck” ... a woman will start to actually experience it.

Try this one!

If you can learn how to talk to women in a way that stimulates their imagination, you can get them turned on over the phone.

I’m sure you can imagine the benefits of having this skill. If you don’t have any idea how to talk romantically, just read a couple of romance novels. I know that they make no sense, but use the stuff anyway. It works!

The Initial Approach

This one is simple.

I’ve tried probably 50 different types of ‘lines’ and techniques for meeting women, and I’ve found that the simple ones work the best.

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If I’m in an environment that has a lot of people, and I’m with a friend, I like to start by asking a woman for her ‘opinion’ on something. Here’s how it happens… first of all, I keep my eyes open for current affairs and interesting trivia that involves gender differences and tension. This makes for amazing conversation openers with hot, intelligent women.

My latest favorite: “Hey, let me ask you a question. My friend and I were talking about something, and I think we need a female perspective…” (This is a killer, by the way. It’s taken me a long time to figure this one out… but it kicks ass). Then I say, “I was just looking on the Internet… and did you know that the average woman in America is 5’ 4”, weighs 150 pounds, and wears a size 14?”  Ohhhhhhhhhh DAMMIT...

I LOVE THIS ONE!

They usually grab the ball and take off into the conversation with just that question.

Others include, “Do you think that men understand what women really want and need?” and “What do you think of this new trend of women wanting to pay their own way… and the Charlie’s Angel’s theme song that sings about it as almost a stuck up thing to do?”

You with me here?

After starting a conversation, get into Mr. Cocky and Funny mode, and you’ll do some good work.

If I’m alone, and the woman is alone or with friends, I usually start with a compliment opener… depending on the situation.

And I always try to tie it into the situation, so it doesn’t sound canned. Women that I run into can smell canned openers… I think that they’re getting popular again or something… because women can sense them like a dog sensing kitties.

I might say, “Excuse me… <Pause pause pause for effect> I noticed you when I walked in, and I had to take a second to find out what you were like…” or something

equally plausible sounding.

What I’ve realized is… if you’re going to approach a woman, what you say doesn’t much matter as much as HOW you say it (remember the character thing?).

So keep a serious look on your face (no big cheesy smiles) as this approach creates the feeling that you’re not overly excited. Then speak with a slow, mysterious confidence.

I’ve met many men who have big problems getting past the idea of walking up to women who they don’t know and starting a conversation. In fact, I had a huge issue too when I started learning about how to deal with women. My best advice is to just go for it and keep doing it until you finally get over it.

One guy I know went to a mall one day and walked up to every woman he saw to get over his fear. He said that he felt sick in the beginning, but the fear eventually went away. And then he did it again another day, and the fear went away a little faster. And now he can walk up to any woman anywhere and start talking.

Just remember, the only power any woman has in your life is THAT WHICH YOU GIVE HER. So don’t give away any of your power. Keep your power for you.

If you are turned away by her, or you get a rude person, just move on to the next one. Persistence is the price of success.

Places To Go

I’ve learned that it’s more interesting to GO somewhere and DO something with a woman than it is to go on a ‘date’.

If you want to do more than just have coffee with a

woman, consider going somewhere fun to shop. I prefer funky, eclectic neighborhoods and shops. These are places full of wacky and fun items. It will give you an ongoing, changing set of things to talk about.

And the best part is that you don’t have to buy anything.

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When you go to these types of places, you can just have fun and talk. Make sure you wander away from her a few times while you’re out. This keeps the ‘I’m not

needy’ thing going on.

Remember, you don’t have to spend money to have fun.

Getting Them Interested In You

An important distinction that I’ve made which attracts women is to never act too happy.

Women are intrigued by men who are calm and almost unaffected. The real hotties are used to having men get nervous when talking to them, and they can sense that you’re different when you stay very cool and calmly talk to them.

NEVER let them sense that you’re too interested in the beginning.

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I just read tonight in a book about cats that a cat will approach the person in the room that is least interested in it. Somehow, cats can detect when someone is paying no attention, which is what attracts them. WOMEN ARE THE SAME.

I know that this one doesn’t make any sense, but if you start acting uninterested, you’ll see that women will start giving you the “What’s wrong? You don’t like me?” response. Now, you may think this is manipulation, but I think of it as having fun, teasing, and being challenging. And by the way, I’ve told several women about this stuff later on after I got to know them better... and they ALL told me that it worked, and they’re glad that I did it in one way or another.