How To Enjoy Sex With OCD

Recently, the TV show Glee has been poking fun at the Emma, the wide-eyed guidance counsellor on the show who has severe OCD. Although many viewers cannot understand how she could avoid having sex with John Stamos, there are in fact a number of people in this world who are too afraid to have xxx action with their partners because of their obsessive -compulsive disorders and nature. Having a healthy adult dating love and sex life may seem like a hopeless dream to achieve for individuals that have trouble becoming sexually aroused and are disgusted by even the thought of bodily secretions and fluids and it’s affecting many people’s sex lives every day.

However, there are solutions to beating this disorder and to enjoy sex the way you should. By following these tips and helpful guidelines, you will see OCD doesn’t have to be eternal cockblock to your sex life anymore.

Medicate Your Symptoms: If you have spent your whole life sabotaging your sex life, it is time to admit you need help. In order to resurrect your dormant sex life, individuals suffering from OCD must seek the right treatment for them to lead healthy lives. There are many medications and sex therapy options that will help your symptoms in great and useful ways.

Tell Your Family Doctor or Therapist: Don’t let your pride get the best of you when you are experiencing sex-related difficulties complicated by your obsessive-compulsion disorder. Tell your family doctor and therapist before seeking out OCD treatments. Your problems may be a lot easier to treat than you may think they are.

Tell Your Partner: Like having any other disease, it’s always good to inform your partner about your disorder and to be honest. If you are a 30 year old virgin because you have been suffering from your disorder, then you need to tell them that. Don’t lead them on if this is going to be a strenuous process for you. Being vocal and honest prevents misunderstandings, low self-esteem issues and you will always see the person’s true colors. The basis for any healthy relationship is good communication and by doing so, you be that much closer to having the courage to pursue a great sexual connection with your partner.

Study 'Discovers' Women Like Casual Fucking

Here’s a surprising (not!) adult dating study for you: women love casual fucking just as much as men as long as the experience is safe and pleasing. Basically, the study, which was out of the University of Michigan, was trying to combat the findings of a very dated but oft-cited 1989 study that had random men and women approach aff members of the opposite sex on the street and ask them if they wanted to get their xxx on. While 75 percent of the men said yes, almost none of the women accepted. Everyone since has been saying this means women only want sex when it means babies and love while mean just want to fuck whoever whenever for whatever reason.

Obviously there are an insane number with problems with the 89 study, most predominantly, the fact that those women might have thought the dude asking them to fuck on the street was a rapist.

Anyways, this study put it all straight. Basically this is how Teri Conley, one of the psychologists on the project, sums ups its finding: “When women are presented with proposers who are equivalent in terms of safety and sexual prowess, they will be equally likely as men to engage in casual sex.”

Yes, anyone who has ever been on an sex dating site already realizes this. But thanks for science-ifying it.

Dating, No Marriage

Sometimes single people aren’t looking for marriage and just want to date casually with no strings attached. Those people often get accused of being serial daters or players when nothing could be further from the truth. They honestly just aren’t looking to get serious again at that moment. Some may be recovering from a divorce and others are just getting over a serious relationship that ended. They’re not necessarily jaded or angry or anything, they may just not be read to get into anything serious just yet. There’s nothing wrong with these people or their choice to not get too serious. Actually, they’re pretty smart because they’ve figured out what they need and why, and they’re going after it no matter what anyone else thinks about it.

For many of us singles, we’re not interested in getting married again. We would love to have a good romantic relationship, and we’re on all kinds of dating websites looking for just that. We’re just not interested in it turning into marriage. Many of us have been married and divorced, and we’re not interested in doing it again for a lot of reasons. Whether we have been married or not, we’ve all watched friends or co-workers go through horrible divorces, and many of us don’t want to ever go through that. Financially, it could be a dangerous prospect to get married and divorced, and for those of us in our mid-40′s, it’s getting a little late in our lives to be financially devastated by a bad marriage or an even worse divorce. Everyone has seen other people lose half their pension or retirement savings in a divorced when they’re too old to recoup their losses, and many of us that are in that age group are afraid to take that chance.

Meanwhile, many of us also realize that we can have sex and fun without marriage, and probably more sex and fun if we don’t get married. Our serious relationships can be very fulfilling and rewarding without making things permanent. We’re enjoying our lives and having a great time dating and being single. We don’t feel any need for anything more than that. That doesn’t make us bad people or serial daters or anything like that. We’re just people that know what we want.

There are a lot of implications to getting married these days, and many people, male and female, see it as completely unnecessary. Women that have gotten out of bad marriages feel like they would somehow be giving up their freedom again. Some people just enjoy the total freedom of being able to date whomever they want and have sex with whomever they choose at any given moment. Many of us no longer expect our romantic relationships to last forever, and have no problem with that concept. Unfortunately, names like ‘serial dater’ have been invented to pass judgment on those of us who simply want to date without the need for a serious relationship being on the agenda. As long as we’re honest about what we’re looking for, why should we be called derogatory names? Many of us aren’t trying to hurt anyone, we simply enjoy our lives exactly the way they are and want to keep them that way.

Pissing vs Squirting

To squirt or not to squirt? That is the question many sexually active adult couples ask themselves in the throes of passion. Men usually try to achieve this mind-blowing orgasm from their female partners during sex and have little success, making themselves believe that the female squirting orgasm does not exist. However, many men will be delighted to hear that the squirting orgasm does in fact exist and the reason why women seem hold back their inhibitions is because many are afraid of “letting go” of their fluids in fear that are releasing urine instead.

The trick to achieving this high-five worthy orgasm is to remain calm, patient and comfortable. Men must be calm and patient enough to bring their female partners to orgasm by accurately flicking their G-spot. While women must remain comfortable about the sensations their bodies are producing during the act. The sensation of an upcoming G-Spot orgasm is the same feeling women get when they have to go to the washroom. It is important to also clear your bladder before getting down and dirty with your partner so you can fully realize what kind of fluids will be dispensed from your body.

It is also important to know that a woman’s squirting discharge’s odor is far different than urine. It omits a light fishy smell and the amount of liquid that is released can differentiate for every woman. Women are known to release the amount of three pints of clear liquid, so don’t be instantly alarmed if the sheets are soaked. It just means you did your job well.

Overall, just have fun exploring each other’s bodies. If a golden shower does rain down upon you, laugh it off. Have fun with your partner and you will quickly find out the difference between pissing and squirting in no time.

How To Spot a Stage 5 Clinger

So you just started dating a reasonable adult woman and are wondering if you are looking for a potential courtship or a casual dating relationship. There are many unattractive qualities about certain single men and women but nothing will turn you off more than a Stage 5 Clinger.

A stage 5 clinger is a term first used in the film Wedding Crashers and it is a person who gets far too clingy early on in a relationship. According to the Urban Dictionary, the definition of a Stage 5 clinger is ‘a member of the opposite sex that is likely to become overly attached, overly fast.

Getting overly attached to someone is fairly unhealthy, however it is even more unhealthy and even considerably dangerous for the other partner. There are certain red flags that you should consider before pursuing a relationship with somebody that exhibits the following qualities and behaviors.

Getting Jealous Far Too Soon

You just started dating this person and you’re out for a night on the town with them and your friends. You go to the bar and somebody asks you for a light. If your partner starts freaking out, throwing a drink in your face and preparing to fight over you, then you have a “Stage 5 clinger” on your hands.

Your Phone Becomes Your Worst Enemy

A stage 5 clinger will start messaging your cute texts at the beginning. You won’t feel alarmed until you start getting texts every 10 minutes. They’ll have a lot of LOLs and MISS U XOXO in every message. They’ll tell how much they’re thinking about you every hour on the hour. They constantly want to know what you’re doing and if you’re thinking of them…even if you’re sitting on the toilet. If you can put your phone on vibrate and could use it as a sex toy, then you have a clinger!

You’ve Been Tapped Googled

A clinger has a tendency to do their research on you and Google is their best friend. They start googling your name and finding any piece of information they can get on you. Suddenly they start talking about interests of yours that they have immediately adopted for their own and questioning who is with you in a picture and what your relationship to that person is.

They Treat You Like Elmyra

Your clinger will cling to you physically as well as emotionally. If they hug you and you feel like how Buster Bunny on Tiny Toons feels when being hugged by Elmyra, then you are in for trouble, my friend.

If you have no intention on working on this relationship, then get out now! Otherwise, prepare for a world of misery.