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Female Masturbation Tips

Whether you have time for a quick feel good session with yourself, or you are practicing mutual he pattie cake: With your pointer and middle fingers, gently pat your clitoris. Vary the pressure and the speed. Your inner labia and clitoris will feel sticky and warm. Directly before you cum, push the same fingers into yourself. Rub the natural lubricant from inside of you onto your clitoris and rub hard until you come.
? The sandwich cookie: Imagine your first two fingers as the hard cookies. Gently grasp your clitoris between your two fingers. Stroke your clitoris with your other hand. Vary the pressure and speed until you come.
? The pulsing pelvis: Begin touching yourself with your fingers how you like it best. Start to softly contact your leg muscles and gently pulse up and down like you’re having sex, Rock up and down until you cum.

Take a dip:
? In the pool: Spread your legs as far as you can while positioning yourself in front of one of the jets. Stand far enough away from the jet so it is not uncomfortable, then move closer and closer until the stimulation is just the right amount to orgasm.
? With your shower head: Use your handheld shower head. Actually take the shower head off of its hook and press it on your clitoris. Rub softly, rub firmly. Alternate between the two extremes.
? In your bathtub: Get into the dry bathtub and sit directly underneath the faucet. Make sure it is directly aimed at your clitoris. Use your elbows to hold up your upper body and stick your hands underneath your butt. Right before your orgasm, turn the water temperature to hot, and let yourself cum.

Common toys:
? Dig the shovel: Use whatever object turns you on. Pick out a vibrator or anything you like. Mimicking a gently digging motion, use the toy to play with your clitoris. Slide your toy down your clitoris, across, and upward. Then remove the object entirely from your body.
? Electric: When using an electric toothbrush to stimulate your clitoris, simply use it as if it were a vibrator. Touch softly at first, and then as you get more excited, get into a rhythm. Go up, down and in little circles.
? A play station: Use a metal gear solid CD on your Sony Playstation and grab the vibrating controller.

How To Know He's Not The One

When you are an adult woman, you start to realize that being attracted to your partner doesn’t just make him “The One.” How can you tell he is Mr. Right now or is the man you will be with for the long haul? Here are some red flags you should consider if you are questioning if your partner is the one for you or not.

He Rather Be Hanging Out With The Guys On His Spare Time

Every healthy relationship should be able to balance their love lives and social lives efficiently. Seeing each other all the time is not healthy, but if your man would rather hang out with his guy friends and drink beers when he has free time, then maybe you have a commitment-phobe on your hands.

He Calls Other People First To Share Good News

If you are the last one to know about your partner’s job promotion or any other note-worthy news in your life, then maybe he doesn’t consider you one of his top priorities.

He Flakes On Important Milestones

If your boyfriend forgot your 17 month anniversary, that’s no big deal. However, if he cancels on seeing you on major annual anniversaries, celebrations or birthdays, then your interests do not come first to him.

You’re Rarely Invited To Social Events With Him

If you see on your Facebook newsfeed that your boyfriend is going to a special event and he has yet to tell you, then this may be a sign that he doesn’t really want you around. It’s fine if you’re not invited to guy’s night out, but if you don’t even rank as his plus one at his friend’s wedding, then he is not taking you seriously.

He Talks About His Ex On Numerous Occasions

Women have tendencies to bring up exes into conversation without even thinking how it can affect their current lovers. Most time women have no clue that their past is biting them in the ass with the verbal diarrhea coming out of their mouths. However, if your boyfriend mentions his ex over and over again, it could mean a lot more than just innocent name dropping. This could be a sign that you are his “filler” girlfriend.

You Don’t Have The Same Views On Life

We all know opposites attract, but over time they do get bored of one another. At the beginning of the relationship, your differences were your biggest strengths. However, in time when you realize you want to travel the world and he wants to stay home and play video games, your relationship may be heading for a dead end. This especially happens if one of you wants to get married and have kids while the other one is perfectly content acting like a big kid.

His Cute Quirks Have Become Extra Annoying

Remember when his cute quirks were things you couldn’t do without? Over time, they may be annoying flaws you want out of your life for good. If every story coming out of your boyfriend’s mouth is causing you to roll your eyes, you really should assess your relationship. It’s quite common to get annoyed with each other from time to time, but you have to understand that you have to love him for who he is because he’s not going to change. If you can’t deal with that, then it may be time to throw in the towel.

He Has Cheated Before

Unfortunately when you get with someone who has admitted they cheated in past relationships, this may lead you to doubt his loyalty to you from time to time. Old habits die hard and if your boyfriend is showing signs of having one foot out of the door, then push his other foot out with him.

Sex Is The Only Thing He Wants

If you have been in a long term relationship, you know that sex dwindles from time to time. However, if your guy is constantly wanting sex from you to ensure your relationship is healthy, then you have an insecure man on your hands.

Look Beyond The Looks

Let’s face it: If your boyfriend wasn’t as hot as he was, would you still want to be with him? If the answer is no, then you should get out of the superficial relationship now.

Homemade Emergency Contraceptives That Work!

So you’re about to have some remarkable sex and then you discover that you have forgotten your condoms on your nightstand. The pharmacy is closed. The only open convenience store is a 20 minute drive away. What do you do? Most people would avoid having unprotected xxx action and suffer blue ball/clit hell, but there are a couple of safe ways to have sex and the birth control contraceptives can be made out of things you can find in your house!

1. HOME MADE SPERMICIDE

One of the most popular homemade spermicide recipes involves aloe vera gel and lemon juice. To make homemade spermicide, combine 1 tbsp of aloe vera gel with 3 drops of lemon juice. You can keep this mixture refrigerated for up to 72 hours.

2. COCA-COLA DOUCHING

In the sixties, Americans used Coca-Cola as a post-coital sex spermicide many women in third world countries still use Coke as an post-sex douche today. Just remember to not confuse the cups you douche and drink with and you should be fine.

3. VITAMIN C

Vitamin C causes the uterus to become volatile to any fertilized egg and the vitamin reduces the chances of pregancy. Just like the birth control pill, Vitamin C will also cause the womb to shed its’ lining. To use this as a contraceptive, take 1000 mg of Vitamin C, twice daily for 3 days after unprotected sex.

Now, these are not a 100% effective methods of birth control. It is up to you to decide what you are willing to put on the line. If all fails, abstain or pull out. That’s my motto.

Talking Dirty

I recently had a woman ask me what sort of “

But I would stick with the following at first, and then determine from there what he responds to most.

First of all, simply try describing what is happening, with the addition of “I love.” Examples: I love this, I love that, I love what your doing with your **** in my ****. I love feeling your *** on my ***. Yummy. And so on. Get the picture?

Also – tell him what you would like done in the future. ‘I want to feel you ****’. Or tell him what you’re going to do. ‘When you cum I”m going to ****, **** and ****’

Lastly, compliment his body. Guys love being objectified and desired too. True story.

This is a good start. Go for it. Report back if you feel like it.

How To Talk To Women

Dating and chatting with girls may seem easy for some men, but a lot of guys end up getting it all wrong. You may think you are having a seemingly good conversation with a woman that you like, but from her perspective, you were boring. In the he wrong thing and getting rejected that they end up holding back and don’t actually show a women who they are and how much fun they can be. Learning to be ourself and letting go of what you think you should be is a way to show strength and confidence. When you learn to have real conversations with girls, you’ll find that instead of looking for girls, the girls are looking for you.

Plans For First 3D Porn

If I could think of anyone’s ultimate adult fantasy I would have to say it would be 3D porn. A director names Tinto Brass has announced plans to make the world’s first 3D xxx film.

He plans to revisits an abandoned project about a Roman emperor that was ruined by Americans, suggesting that the film will be a remake of Caligula.

The 1979 film which starred Helen Mirren was a collaboration between Brass and the Penthouse publisher Bob Guccione. It also starred the late John Gielgud and Peter O’Toole.

A US author names Gore Vidal, who wrote the original script, was very prominent on distancing himself from the infamous film, that he even took legal action and had his name removed from the project.

The film will be surrounded around the “ride” and fall of Roman Emperor Gaius Caesar Germanicus, also known as Caligula, played by british actor Malcolm McDowell. Rumor has it, the original scrip comes from a bastardized version of Anthony Burgess’s (of Clockwork Orange fame) “KIngdom of the Wicked,” originally inked for a TV mini-series.

When it came to the final cut of the film, Italian director Brass and Guccione had a falling our over the final cut because Gucionne secretly added a number of explicit sexual scenes in post-production. He went on to defend his decision by saying that he wanted to film to reflect the reality of pagan Rome.

After there was such an uproar over the film’s xxx rated scenes and explicit content, an edited version was produced. Both versions can be found and are available on DVD.

The 3D version, which will only be directed by Brass, will be the first 3D film made in Italy and will begin shooting

The Beginning of the End, Or the End of the Beginning

Once you’ve figured out how to attract women, you’re bound to find one who’s particularly interesting to you.

One that you might actually, um, love.

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One that you might want to keep around for a bit. Hey, you might even meet someone that you want to spend the rest of your life with.

Even though I’ve made most of this book about meeting women, I don’t feel that it would be complete without at least a few ideas on how to keep a woman attracted to you for the long haul.

But first of all, here’s my take on why relationships fail:

When you first start dating someone you really like, the body releases a combination of chemicals that are quite literally intoxicating. These chemicals cause you to want to be with that person all the time, stay up all night talking to them, and have sex with them three times a day.

But twelve to eighteen months later, the chemicals change. The intoxicating chemicals are replaced by ‘stability’ chemicals. The ‘stay-up-all-night-can’t-be-away-from-her-have-sex-three-times-a-day’ feeling goes away and the ‘let’s-settle-down-and-have-two-kids-and-buy-a-minivan’ chemicals take over. Deal with it. (If you want to understand this process better, read “The Alchemy of Love and Lust” by Theresa Crenshaw.)

So now that you know this, how do you keep this whole thing from turning into an episode of “All in the Family”?

Well, the short answer is, keep up the fun, interesting, unpredictable behaviour. Notice the details. Do thoughtful things.

Here’s something that I’ve learned in life: If you want to get back more than you give, then play the stock market. It’s not gonna happen in relationships. In fact, if you want to get a lot back, you’re probably going to have to give even more.

Most people are selfish and say, “I’m not going to give more than I get.” But instead of getting a lot, all they get is old and unhappy. I’ve found that it’s much better to give a ton and get back a lot in return, not caring about the fact that I didn’t get as much as I gave than to give little or none and get back little or none.

Relationships aren’t like investing. If you want a lot, get used to giving more. But it’s worth it in the end, because love, attention, humour, and fun aren’t like money. If you give them out, you don’t have less. You have MORE. Get it?

Now that you’ve read this book, you probably have that same feeling that I had when I first learned all of this amazing material. You’re probably excited.

Well, there’s more.

If you are ready to take your education to the next level and advance at a faster pace, then you need to listen to, read, and watch my other programs. They take this foundation and expand the concepts both wide and deep... and show you tricks and shortcuts for everything from approaching women to taking things to a physical level.

Two Ways Women Think About Men And How You Can Control

This I believe that women see men with whom they get involved as either ‘long-term relationship’ material or ‘sex’ material. You have to make the choice about which category you’d like to be in. By the way, if you get involved sexually, you can usually extend that for as long as you’d like.

If, on the other hand, you don’t get involved sexually but you still buy her dinner, call her all the time, and pursue her, there’s a good chance that you’ll NEVER get involved with her sexually.

Many, if not most guys, think that if they play the dating game that they’ll wind up ‘getting some’ eventually. This just isn’t so. I’ve met so many women who say, “Well, I have this guy that I let buy me things and take me out, and I have this other one that’s my sex toy.”

Now, admittedly this isn’t all women. But believe me when I tell you that if you get on the ‘friendship’ program, you’re very likely to stay there. And the friendship road is

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paved with gifts and dinners.

Trust me. If you do too many things for her, you’re going to spend a lot of time and $$$ and most likely never wind up with anything to show for it other than a curious dry feeling just below your abdomen.

For the record, I really do like e-mail communication better than phone communication. I get probably 4 out of 5 women that I e-mail to write back, as opposed to maybe 1 out of 2 or 3 calls returned the first time.

I write and say, “Hey, it was nice meeting you last night… what are you up to this week? Would you like to join me for a cup of something wonderful and some stimulating conversation? Talk to me.”

If they don’t answer that one, I write back a couple of days later with, “What, playing hard to get already? Nice. Talk to me.”

I get most of them e-mailing me back by this point.

When they do, I say, “What’s your # and when’s a good time to reach you?”

Now, here’s why I do this… Duh! When I e-mail them, for some reason they feel like we’re friends because we’ve e-mailed back and forth… don’t ask me to explain it… it’s taken me two and a half years to figure it out.

They also return your calls after you’ve e-mailed them a couple of times… again, don’t ask me why, some freaky chick thing.

OK… so now I’m on the phone with them (either because I’ve e-mailed them, or because I just got a number and called). I want to get together with them for about 30 minutes and see what they’re like as a person and decide if they’re someone who I’d like to know better.

I’ll tell them that I was about to go do something (to remind myself and let them know that I have a life) and then say, “Well, let’s see… what’s your schedule for the next few days? (I choose a time based on her reply…) Why don’t we get together tomorrow at about four. Do you know where the blah blah blah coffee shop is? Great… if we get along, then maybe we can go for a bite to eat… but you know, coffee is a safe bet… this way, if you’re scary in person, I can say, “Oh, hey… um… I just remembered that I have to go floss my cat… it’s really important…” and then we can call it a night.”

This makes them laugh, but it also gets them thinking, “Who the hell is this guy to be qualifying me?” which is perfect.

Next, I tell them, “The coffee place is close to my house so why don’t you just meet me at my place, ring the bell, and I’ll come out and we can go… this way if you’re a few minutes early or late, I don’t have to be waiting.” (I got this idea from a friend of mine.)

Then I say, “Now, let me ask you this… what are the chances that you’re not going to show up tomorrow? <Let her answer> Because one of my pet peeves is people that are late or flaky. I can deal with a lot of things, but I’m always on time where I say I’m going to be, and I never have an excuse or don’t show up… so I just wanted to make sure… because if there’s one thing that could end our friendship before it starts, it’s flakiness.” This sets the right tone for flaking, as you can see.

***HERE COMES THE KILLER!

Next, when we’re getting ready to hang up, I say something like, “Great, it’s going to be nice to get to know you better. And if nothing else, we can just be FRIENDS.”

It’s taken me and a good friend of mine a long time to get this piece. From here on out, I constantly drop hints about just ‘being friends’ and how I really ‘like her as a friend’ and how ‘it’s nice to meet someone that I like as a friend’.

Trust me on this one… this messes them up soooooo hard that they literally don’t know what to do.

This is most likely the first time IN THEIR ENTIRE LIFE that this has happened to them. It continually triggers their insecurity and makes them wonder why

they’re not attractive enough to you. It also disarms them completely. (You have to really possess the mindset that you are qualifying them and that they’re going to be your friend for this to work)

I personally like to use the friendship jargon because I have decided that it’s better to enter any new relationship in a ‘NOT NEEDY’ frame of mind. Talking about being friends reminds ME to pay more attention and to remember that I don’t need anything and to stay focused on learning.

On Looks and Body Language

Most of the men I talk to who want to learn how to be successful with women ask me things like, “What’s a good line?” or “What do you say when they say this?”

For some reason, most people forget that language is a SECONDARY way of communicating. It’s to be used when there’s no faster way.

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When two people are communicating face-to-face, most of the communication is happening through body language and voice tone, while very little through the

actual words.

I’ve seen studies that show that as little as 7% of what you communicate is done verbally, while your body language and voice tone make up the other 93%.

So which do you think is more powerful when dealing with women?

Right, right... your body language and voice tone.

Where And How To Meet Women

I intuitively determined that there are certain major steps to ‘meeting women’, if you will. This is how my mind naturally thinks.

I’ve now broken these down in my mind to chunks like ‘Approaching Women’, ‘Getting Phone Numbers’, etc. which I’ll explain here and in future chapters.

I’d like to add here that different people have different personal views regarding meeting women, ‘getting laid’, relationships, etc.

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I’m not going to try to convince you that my way is the best, but I’ll share some of my personal values with you. When I’m in a ‘relationship’ with a woman and we’ve agreed to be ‘exclusive’, then I’m faithful to that woman.

If I’m single, then I date whoever I want, whenever I want, and have no problems or hang ups with sex, seeing more than one woman at a time, etc. Some people see things differently, which is fine, but I wanted you to know where I was coming from on this issue.

By the way, the things that I’m sharing with you work whether you’re just meeting a woman or if you’ve known her for years... or even if you’ve been married forever.

And contrary to what many men think, women usually love it that you’ve taken the time to learn things like what I’m teaching you. It makes things more fun and interesting for them.

Learn A Few Cold Reading Methods

Women love things like Astrology, Tarot Cards, Palmistry, Handwriting Analysis, Psychics, and anything else you can think of that most men aren’t interested in.

Here’s what to do:

Go get the books “Handwriting Analysis” by Karen Amend, “Palm Reading: A Little Guide To Life’s Secrets” by Dennis Fairchild. and “An Introduction to Hand Reflexology” by Denise Brown. You can order all of them at Amazon.com.

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Then sit down for an evening and read them. Learn some basics about how to tell people what they’re like from studying handwriting samples, looking at their palms, feeling tension in their bodies, etc.

This stuff is ABSOLUTELY FASCINATING to women.

All you have to do is take a woman’s hand, look at it, and say, “Well, you’re a very interesting person.”

That’s it... it’s almost like magic.

After revealing to her all of her secret desires, you can move directly into your hand massage and Reflexology methods. I’m hoping that the benefits of these techniques speak for themselves.

By the way, it doesn’t hurt to know a few advanced or unusual massage moves either. So you might want to check out a couple of books on massage while you’re at it.

Signs That A Woman Is Interested

I’ve read all the books that say, “If a woman tilts her head to the side, licks her lips, fondles her hair, and looks over her shoulder at you, there’s a 67% chance that she’s interested in you.”

Here’s what I’ve found:

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The main sign signal that I look for now is, ‘Is she acting friendly to me?’

That’s it. Now, of course some women are more forward than others; but overall, if a woman is acting friendly and keeping up an interesting conversation, you’re usually doing pretty well.

The key is to KEEP GOING AND CONTINUE TO THE NEXT STEP ALWAYS.

I have to stop and explain this point.

Most men don’t realize that THEY NEED TO KEEP ADVANCING.

If your conversation is going well, ask for a phone number.

If you’re out for a walk and the conversation seems to be going well, reach over and kiss her.

If you’re at your house watching a movie and start kissing, take her hand and lead her to your bedroom... get the idea?

Keep advancing.

Women like this and expect it. If they’re not comfortable, they’ll let you know. But don’t worry. Just keep going and advance again at the next opportunity.

Don’t push – advance.

More on this stuff:

Read Chapter 7 of “Body Language” by Julius Fast … about Mike. I’ve read that chapter about 50 times. You may not get it at first, but keep reading it until you do. The more you learn, the more you’ll get it.

Also, read “The Rules” by Ellen Fein and Sherrie Schneider… yea, the one for women. Do that stuff… it works… end all conversations first, etc.

And read “How to Make Love to a Woman” by Michael Morganstern. Good stuff in there too. And learn how to be funny… do whatever you have to do. It’s the magic ingredient to add to your cockiness that sets the mixture ablaze.

Chivalry

My experience is that women love chivalry.

I personally like to open doors for women, etc.

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Here are a few things that you can do that women will find irresistible:

Open doors for them. I open all doors. Car doors, house doors, restaurant doors... any door that shows up. If you step just a little ahead and open each door, this will create an impression.

Pull out their chairs. Only do this if it makes sense and it’s reasonable. But if you can, do it. Women love to feel like a man is watching over them and making sure they are taken care of. This is another little way to show it.

Walk on the outside of the sidewalk. Most men, and even many women, don’t know that men are ‘supposed’ to walk on the outside of the sidewalk (closest to the traffic) just in case a car jumps the curb, so she’ll be safe and he’ll instead be hit. Do this, and if they don’t know why you’re doing it, explain the reason. Nice touch.

On Cuddling

I personally love to cuddle. I discovered something almost entirely by accident one time when I was talking to a girl on the phone one night. We were having a discussion about the differences between men and women and I said something to this effect:

“Do you like to cuddle? I really like to cuddle… as a matter of fact, if I had to choose between cuddling and sex, I’d choose cuddling. Now don’t get me wrong, I love sex… but cuddling is the best… can you cuddle all night?”

Then I said, “I really like to kiss, and I can just kiss and cuddle... and touch someone all night... and feel wonderful...”

By the time I was finished, she started saying, “I’m really getting turned on right now”... she actually asked me to have phone sex with her!

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I’ve had this happen on the phone several times since, and it’s not a coincidence.

When you’re talking to a woman, if you start talking about kissing, cuddling, touching... and you are very specific about it... “I like to run the tips of my fingers over the part of your shoulder where it touches your neck” ... a woman will start to actually experience it.

Try this one!

If you can learn how to talk to women in a way that stimulates their imagination, you can get them turned on over the phone.

I’m sure you can imagine the benefits of having this skill. If you don’t have any idea how to talk romantically, just read a couple of romance novels. I know that they make no sense, but use the stuff anyway. It works!

Places To Go

I’ve learned that it’s more interesting to GO somewhere and DO something with a woman than it is to go on a ‘date’.

If you want to do more than just have coffee with a

woman, consider going somewhere fun to shop. I prefer funky, eclectic neighborhoods and shops. These are places full of wacky and fun items. It will give you an ongoing, changing set of things to talk about.

And the best part is that you don’t have to buy anything.

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When you go to these types of places, you can just have fun and talk. Make sure you wander away from her a few times while you’re out. This keeps the ‘I’m not

needy’ thing going on.

Remember, you don’t have to spend money to have fun.

Getting Them Interested In You

An important distinction that I’ve made which attracts women is to never act too happy.

Women are intrigued by men who are calm and almost unaffected. The real hotties are used to having men get nervous when talking to them, and they can sense that you’re different when you stay very cool and calmly talk to them.

NEVER let them sense that you’re too interested in the beginning.

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I just read tonight in a book about cats that a cat will approach the person in the room that is least interested in it. Somehow, cats can detect when someone is paying no attention, which is what attracts them. WOMEN ARE THE SAME.

I know that this one doesn’t make any sense, but if you start acting uninterested, you’ll see that women will start giving you the “What’s wrong? You don’t like me?” response. Now, you may think this is manipulation, but I think of it as having fun, teasing, and being challenging. And by the way, I’ve told several women about this stuff later on after I got to know them better... and they ALL told me that it worked, and they’re glad that I did it in one way or another.

Your 7-Step Guide To Getting Physical

When you get back to the house, say, “Well, I have to get up early in the morning...but...OK, you can come in for a few minutes...” Take her on a quick tour and then sit down on a bed or on the couch. Use ‘The Kiss Test’ – Start stroking the bottom of her hair while you are talking. If she enjoys it, she’s into you! Lean in and lightly smell her shoulders… then pull back… then do it again. Slowly work your way up to smelling her neck and ears. Keep building up tension… and finally give her a kiss… then pull back. Accuse HER of being “forward”. Wait for her to make the first sexually aggressive move… then say, “All you have to do is say please”. If she says, “No no no...”, just roll over and look up away from her, which will make her curious. Pull back again and wait for her to come to you. Turn up the heat with the sensual kissing, breathing in her ears, etc. until she gets more excited (i.e. breathing getting faster, heart race starts increasing, etc.)… then make her say “please” again!

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How To Get The First Meeting

First of all, I’m going to explain my mindset: I have decided that I need about 20-30 minutes to get to know a woman before I decide to invest in getting to ‘really’ know her.

I actually like women for their company, and who I’d enjoy seeing for more than just one ‘get laid’ session.

So I like to meet a woman for a cup of tea and talk for a bit, or even let that lead to a bite to eat sometimes. So my mindset is that I’M THERE TO QUALIFY THEM. Not the other way around. They pick up on this mentality and

respond accordingly.

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Body Language Basics

Many people agree that women are far more sensitive to body language than men are.

I have to say that in my experience, women can detect all kinds of things from body language. Ask a female friend to describe what’s going on with a person by looking at them, and you’ll be surprised at all the information they’ll give you.

So it follows that if women are so in tune with body language, you might as well get some of the basics together so you’re transmitting the right messages.

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My opinion is that women prefer men who are confident, bordering on arrogant.

Most women will tell you that arrogant men turn them off, but I’ve found that if you mix humour with a little arrogance, it’s a killer.

So how do you use your body to telegraph confidence?

Well, first of all walk upright, hold your head up, and hold your shoulders back.

Next, SLOW DOWN your movements and make slower, calculated gestures.

Then, make eye contact and keep it when you see women. Don’t look away until they do and kind of squint while raising an eyebrow.

I’ve done a lot of work in this area, and I’ve found that by SLOWING DOWN, I create mystery and intrigue. I literally practice slowing down my walk, my gestures, how fast I turn my head, how fast I talk, and even how fast I blink.

Also, start taking up more space and opening up your physiology. If you’re seated, keep your legs and arms uncrossed. Keep your legs far apart and your shoulders

back. Don’t lean forward; lean back.

This might sound a little far out to some people, but these LITTLE details make all the difference when dealing with a woman.

It’s amazing how fast most women can detect insecurity, neediness, and low self-esteem.

I personally believe that when a man is self-confident (or more specifically, a woman BELIEVES that he is), women are attracted to him on an UNCONSCIOUS level. What I mean is that I think this behaviour activates a part of a woman’s brain that can’t help but feel an attraction.

If you’d like a model of confidence, watch some James Bond movies. You’ll notice that James almost never smiles, and I can’t remember when I’ve ever seen him laugh.

But James is the sex symbol of masculine adventure.

Does he do the things that I mentioned above? Of course. That’s where I learned a lot of them. Ha!

Another way to demonstrate and project confidence is to PAUSE while you’re talking. Pausing on purpose creates suspense and tension.

It’s great. If you combine pauses with serious looks, you will create an air of power and confidence.

For example, you might say, “Well, if I were you, I’d just tell her what you think” like so... “Well... (pause) if I were you... (pause and look into eyes with serious look) I’d just tell her what you think.”

This creates what’s known as a ‘subtext’ to the communication. On the surface you’re talking about the normal conversation. But underneath, you’re communicating suspense, confidence, and mystery.

If you learn how to mix a seductive voice tone and body language with regular conversation, you’ll find that you can get women turned on talking about random things like the weather.

Pause often. It will do wonders for your communication style.