No it is not a myth or and adult fantasy, women do experience the release of ejaculation just like guys do. For those who want their women to achieve a squirting orgasm, follow these steps:
An exciting prelude to being sexual exploration: make the foreplay hot and steamy. Start out with small bites on the neck, followed by smooth sucking on her nipples. Follow your fingertips down to her inner thighs. Then, let your lover be the guide.
Licking her is more than just the movement of your tongue: start off by sliding your tongue along the vulva to the clitoris and along the border’s of her vagina
Light touches along the mounds of the most private parts: allow the tip of your tongue to travel along the labia. To make this more pleasurable, let your tongue slide along with some momentary sucking.
Next stop, the clitoris: tenderly suck on her clitoris. You can move your tongue in various directions. Make your hands busy at the same time and gently caress her breasts.
Roll that tongue: curl your tongue into a tube like shape and insert it into the vagina as gently as you can.
Finger power: insert two fingers into the vagina with your palm facing upwards. Find the g-spot. lightly touch and ass pressure on the spot using your fingertips. You will feel it swell up and become more rigid as you continue to simulate it.
The most awaited moment: at this point she will most likely reach the point where she is able to ejaculate. She might feel the urge to pee, but reassure her that is is perfectly safe to let go.